sharing a wonderful writing found on Fetlife and shared with permission from the write--this is amazing read about Doms.
DLG/PocketPet
A Dom needs his sub....let me count the ways.
I am a different sort of Dom. I'm a sensitive person and I feel incomplete when I don't fell like I am wanted. I need to feel sexy, appreciated and loved as the only man in the world. I feel pain and I do not feel good if I feel like a disappointment. My heart aches when I feel like I am not good enough. Building my confidence will pay off in spades. Doms need their subs. I know this isn't typical Dom-ness. I'm just me.
I will enthusiastically respond to you and your playfulness. I will cherish you. I will admire you. I will gain the confidence to wash away any hesitation that keeps me from being Dominant at times. I will praise you. You will be my sun and moon, the air I breathe and the star I wish upon. I will always love you, deeply,adoringly and without reservation. You will be my princess and I will respect you as the other half to my soul. I will please you in every way I know how and learn what I don't know. I will be honest and faithful. I want to see you smile in the knowledge you make me happy. When I feel Dominant, Ill do things to surprise you. I will find ways to make you swoon in bliss. I will do nasty things that you and I love. I will do everything in my power to protect you and strengthen you in success. You are my favorite thing.Ever.
My old fashioned demeanor tells me I should not do things that are unsolicited or wanted. My brain feels lost sometimes. How do I change this? I want so many things...But what do I want in return from my sub? How can my sub instill in me the confidence to be who I am, who I need to be and who I want to be? I am sure this sounds weak and "non Domly" but I am not weak. I have this beast inside of me that I fear to set free without "the right time" or "the right mood". I know that I am expected to make the right mood, to make the right time. To make the experiences happen. Right now, I need things first. Lets do this as a team.
- Make me feel wanted
- Ask me to get out your symbols of ownership, like collars,ankle bells or cuffs and tell me you want to wear them
- When I start to give you attention, respond in a sexy way so I know you are interested in play
- Talk to me about creating a scene or planning a sexy night of various activities
- Think about what I want and take steps to please me
- Think about what you want and communicate openly
- Realize that if you want me to be a good Dom, be a good sub.
- If I am insecure, build me up
- If I am tired or stressed out, initiate intimacy
- Forget the past, its negative influence and treat each day as an opportunity to make me smile, as I do for you.
- Give me your heart, all of your heart and show me there is no other like me.
- Don't be critical of me if I am in a mood and get brutally Dominant, it stops me when I want to do those things again.I know you don't want that. I don't like to second guess myself.
- Be playful
- Wear things I've bought you without me asking
- Know that I WANT to give you pleasure
- Know that I need to feel like we are both getting what we want from each other
- Understand me with my weaknesses so you can give me strength
- Be my lil pet and seek attention when you want attention
- Help me learn things I don't know about by communicating before and during something new
- Help me to openly become the man I am and you will not have to lend me so much strength later down the road.
- Accept me for who I am and who I can be, if encouraged.
- I need you, my sub. D/s is a two way street...Take my hand and lets walk together.
– MasterArtist73
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